The day of my wedding I woke up to hear the rustling of my huz leaving the front door. Umm, yes I said LEAVING. I was half asleep and turned and tossed for a bit until I realized it was my wedding day!
I get up, wake up my niece who was here from the ATL for her auntie’s wedding and I ask her if she knew where the huz was. She said she was still in bed but she was sure he had just left 15 minutes ago. I call him. NO answer. I call him 15 more times and NO ANSWER! I call his mom, brother, and friends and they have no idea where he is.
So I cry.
His mom tells me to calm down and his brother says “Don’t worry”. You wanna know all the things that went through my mind? I don’t think you do so I’ll save you some grief but GOD DA-rling, I was pissed, shaking, and my face looked beautiful, red, and puffy. Perfect!
After 3 hours, his mom got a hold of him and told me to leave to the hotel and that was everything was ok. No it wasn’t! I wanted answers! I couldn’t be that big of a beezy and especially not to his mom. I followed her directions and drove, still in tears. My niece said “You’re right for being so pissed. ” and somehow that calmed me down. A bit.
He kind of messed up my day for me, that day. Now that I look back it still makes me want to give him a loving punch in the gut but I think I understand. Maybe guys worry too?
This is what the huz wore on our wedding day:
Anywho, getting back, see his long sleeved guayabera with those nice khakis? Nice right? We wanted it casual. He wanted that too. Well, the day before he told a friend he was wearing this and his friend told him he’d be completely under-dressed. That morning he got up and tried to go tux hunting. He gave up when he tried on a few and none of them fit.
If I would’ve known I think we would’ve gone for a tie. See, but then again he’s not a tie guy. Maybe they’re not as easy to please as we think?
Here are a few ties I found on Etsy that I sooo would’ve opted for and if he was a tie guy, I’d totally purchase one now!
The white one for the groom, the black for the groomsmen?
This one is my fave! It has a black lotus screenprinted. If you want to get involved in having every little thing in your wedding be of significance this one is it! Imagine a lotus inspired wedding. Read here for its significance. I’ve always loved the lotus flower because of its meaning behind.
These people have the most awesome selection of ties at a pretty good price. Go check em’ out!
P.S. Huz: Don’t ever pull that sh*t again! ♥